Saturday, April 14, 2012

Inner child

Some of us do not believe we have inner child in our side. when we grow older, we forget the exciting of the inner child that keep alive. It sound like have the two personality problems but actually we have several personality inside our side. Inner child exist since the day we know how to think and analyses. But when we become more older and have more thinks that spinning in our mind, we start to forget how you could laugh and could cry and just express our feeling like the way we want.
knowing well about the inner child could help us to control your emotions easily. It won't hurt others or ourselves easily. Happy or sad that is change within a seconds. Is fast and hard to control.But when we know well about what our inner child like and prefer, we could manage it well. Sometime we need to listen well what the inner child wish like to be. Is part of ourselves and please don't refuse it coming back to our life. And let the inner child be yourself for sometimes and please don't force yourself to keep it away.
some of us will always wondering that are our emotions is decide by others person and environment that always change. Environments and others elements always change it from time to time or could said is seconds to seconds. It happened daily that we facing when we have the happy mood and could become sad mood after a minutes or a seconds. For my opinion, it should be sound irresponsible if others could decide our emotions.
Most of the time when we would like to make a decision,we will hear that we have two voice inside our minds. One of them want us to make it but another one want us to stop it. Is just like present of two wolfs inside us. Which one that we feed more, that one will always with us. Just need to listen carefully before make any decision for better arrangement. Listen to which one that we prefer and we need to trust on it to prevent us lost our direction.
Psychotherapist use this method to control the emotions of depression adults also. They will encourage the adults for listening what they want have actually, let themselves speak out what they would like to be when they small. When adults decide to get back when they small, they could find something that make them keep alive and active since so long. On certain condition, psychiatrist will use the hypnosis method to bring back the inner child for those who suffering mental illness. It just would like to figure out what happened on the past.
Is depend how we to decide for it. We are everything for ourselves, master and enemy for ourselves. Challenging with others is not the way to make ourselves better just could help us to figure out what is our weakness. But through understanding about our inner child, it could help us know better what is our weakness. Listen what do you want is the way to make yourself understanding more.